Hello, my name is Cheney.

I am a mom, a writer, a reader, and a certifiable internet addict. When not tethered to my laptop, I enjoy long walks on the beach, dangerous jaunts in dungeons, and eating all the food anyone will cook for me. Especially if it includes chocolate. I am the managing editor and webmaster for The Scope Magazine, and also a contributing writer. 

Learn more here, y'all. 

Search & Destroy:
Tweet Tweet:
I'm Elsewhere:

 

I write stories:

 

I work here:


Instagrams
I Support & Participate
LINKwithlove




bloglovin



Read & Weep:
1000 Songs 1WTC 30 Before 30 4th of July 52 Books 9/11 abortion Accordion School Adeline age aging Alex alias Alisha Amanda Hocking America Andy Ania Ahlborn anxiety Aquarium art August authenticity Azu Baby Bean bad days barbeque beach Beau bills birth control birthday blogging BlogHer boo-boos book reviews books Brad bravery Breaking Bad Brian Britney Spears bugs campaigning candy Chana chips chocolate Christmas civil rights coloring comedy of errors crocheting crying D&D Dan Dan Malloy Daryl Daryl Finizio dating Dave David Duchovny death depression dieting dreams Elise erotica Facebook failure Fall falling family fear Finding Hannah Finizio for Mayor fish in the sea food football Fox Mulder friends friendship frustrated funny Gaby Gary gifs go-kart GOT Grace In Small Things Grandparents Halloween Harvey's holidays home honesty honey mustard horror Howard the Unicorn Ian Ian Somerhalder identity image Indie Ink Challenge insomnia inspiration Instagram internet iPhone iPhotos Jason Momoa John Green JRR Karmin Ke$ha Kindergarten laziness Life List Linda links lists LOST love martinis math Me melancholy MEME memories men mental help Michael Bolton Michelle Mike Mohegan Sun Mojitos Mom mommyblogging money mortality motherhood movies music My Mighty Life NaBloPoMo NaNoWriMo Neil Gaiman New London New Year Nicki Minaj No Child Left Behind nostalgia Nova Ren Suma NY Giants NYC Occupy Ok Cupid on writing online dating owen OWS pain parenting Paul's Pasta photo photography photos picnics pigs piracy placenta play poetry politics poor promises protesting publishing quotes rambling random ranting reading religion Republicans reviews Rita's Riverside Park RL Robert Downey Jr. rock shows SAD sailfest Salem Sara saying no Scope Magazine secret life secrets SEED serial sex shame Sharon Olds short story sick silence Siobhan Sister Wives sleep snow special education spiders Squarespace Steph Stephen King Summer swim tattoos teenagers Tessa Tessa & Alex The Eternals The Game The Gee The Hannah Sketches The Hunger Games The Past The Royale Brothers The Vampire Diaries the weekend The X-Files time Todd Trifecta Challenge Tumblr validation Veronica Roth video voting voyeurism VZFS! weather Weeds Weighty Issues Westerly winter women's rights wondering work writer's block writing writing advice WTF YA young adult yummy noodle zombies
Powered by Squarespace

.

Entries in laziness (1)

Wednesday
Jan042012

A Terrible Mind Tells It Like It Is

I've been reading Chuck Wendig's blog, Terrible Minds, for some years now. He's a great blogger and writer, and he writes a lot of writerly tip lists that get shared from one end of the internet to the other because they are so good. He's really the only writer who has repeatedly made me feel like kicking my own ass into doing something, and he's done it again with his new 25 Things Writers Should Stop Doing (Right Fucking Now).

I've struggled with fear... for a very long time. Fear of rejection by my peers, fear of rejection from agents or publishers, fear of rejection from my own self - fear of never believing that anything I write is good enough. But worse, especially lately, has been my laziness. I'm just not writing. It's sort of killing me.

Here's what Chuck says in that blog post about fear and laziness, my two biggest enemies:

Fear will kill you dead. You’ve nothing to be afraid of that a little preparation and pragmatism cannot kill. Everybody who wanted to be a writer and didn’t become one failed based on one of two critical reasons: one, they were lazy, or two, they were afraid. Let’s take for granted you’re not lazy. That means you’re afraid. Fear is nonsense. What do you think is going to happen? You’re going to be eaten by tigers? Life will afford you lots of reasons to be afraid: bees, kidnappers, terrorism, being chewed apart by an escalator, Republicans, Snooki. But being a writer is nothing worthy of fear. It’s worthy of praise. And triumph. And fireworks. And shotguns. And a box of wine. So shove fear aside — let fear be gnawed upon by escalators and tigers. Step up to the plate. Let this be your year.